Blessings
My Aunt Rose offered to pay for our invitations and stamps. After we searched
tirelessly for about a week, while we both
juggled homework and tight schedules, a friend of Daniel’s
found a beautiful golden invitation on the internet for a low price.
(Invitation
Consultants.com)
My Aunt Ramona and cousin Jeanelle planned a bridal shower for me November
16, which was lovely!! Many church friends and relatives came. I received
much of
what we needed for our home. I was very surprised.
Meanwhile, my wedding dress and veil came together
beautifully for an incredible price thanks
to Dorothy Heidke, a friend
of the family
and
seamstress in
Berrien. She recommended her friend Vonya,
a professional seamstress from Bulgaria,
to make my bride’s maids dresses. I was able to find some fabulous material
for those through Dorothy from a place in Chicago for only $4.50 a yard! I bought
my tiara on Ebay for $10 from Hong Kong. I also found tuxedos for $54 from Men’s
Warehouse. While I was on the phone with the
store manager, he found a coupon and chopped
the price
for us. Yes!
You can find
nice things
without
paying
a lot!
We chose the Cicero Church for our ceremony
site (which was free since I was a member)
and hoped to have the reception at Indiana
Academy near by. Unfortunately,
they told us we could not use the cafeteria.
We were stuck. Daniel and I prayed about
using the worship area in the chapel of the academy,
a newer facility traditionally
not permitted to be used for events that
involved food, which our reception would have. Soon
after we were approved to use the facility
for a small refundable
deposit.
Next was the hassle of choosing and arranging
all the decorations. As finals approached
and papers
were due,
I began to feel
the heat. Thankfully,
my
Aunt Ramona works at Michael’s Arts and Crafts. She gets a reasonable discount
on anything she buys. She, in her generosity, purchased the majority of the decorations
including the equipment for the wedding cake and flowers for the bouquets. Michael’s
has a full time employee who arranges flowers.
I picked out the flowers I wanted and the labor
was
free because
Aunt
Romana is
an employee.
About a week or so before finals the final
arrangements were made for Daniel to work
in Stevensville. We were given a lovely
house next to the fair grounds
and across the highway from Apple Valley
(for
those of you familiar with Berrien). We
live in the main floor of a freshly painted and
newly carpeted old house with
2 bedrooms, a living room, dining room
as well as a medium-sized kitchen. For us this
is huge!!
We believe that the Lord has provided us
with a place where
we can have friends and new believers over
frequently to make them part of our life.
Surprisingly and by God’s grace, I finished the semester with very good
grades. Daniel also completed his program with
flying colors. During finals week I moved into the house and headed over to
Troy (near Detroit) for Daniel’s
graduation from A.R.I.S.E. Institute. Daniel
had also been having many answered prayers concerning the honeymoon, which
I didn’t
know about yet. He wanted to take us snowboarding
but neither of us had
equipment. I had given
my almost-new
snowboard, bindings, boots, and pants away about
2 years ago to a relative
who never used them. I had since tried to get
them back because
I found out she had
a baby, but I had no success getting them. Daniel
was able to secretly contact them and they gave
him all
of my equipment
for
the cost
of shipping only.
He then bought used pants, boots and a snowboard
with bindings from a friend there
in Troy.
After Daniel’s graduation we headed to my house to get ready for the wedding.
This was three weeks before the wedding and I was just informed that my photographer
would not do the wedding. Some time before this, in answer to prayer, Daniel
and I received a large money gift from a relative for the purpose of helping
with the photography. We chose budget for about $500 for photos. I needed to
find a new photographer who was willing to do it for that price, which is very
low. I called and called and I visited several photographers. They were either
too expensive or poor quality. My mom was praying about this a lot. Someone gave
a name and number through my Aunt Mona at work. After all the other photographers
I was so discouraged that I wasn’t going to even try to call him, but my
mom reminded me. He turned out to be exactly what I was looking for. He did an
excellent job! Sorry, I can’t put any of them on e-mail because I can’t
scan them. While he took the professional pictures
a former teacher of ours took digital black and
white photos
for
us to use how
we want. That
same
week I also
found a place to have boutonnieres and corsages
made for about $1 each!
Daniel had also had some problems with his car. He and his dad, Steve,
had decided to purchase a more reliable car for Bible work. Steve found
an older ad for a nice Honda that, for some reason, had not sold yet. When
he visited, the lady agreed to lower the price to a very affordable level.
When we went to Daniel’s
house for Christmas, Daniel and his family surprised me with the extra blessing
on Christmas Day. We now have a’98
Honda Civic for Bible work purposes.
We used this to drive to the honeymoon where Daniel had used a friend’s
timeshare for a resort in Massanutten, Virginia. We
stayed
there for one week in a fairly
large condo and
had a great time!!
The ceremony was beautiful. We filled the stage with free Christmas trees and put white lights on them with fake snow underneath. It was very low-lit and elegant. I sang to Daniel at the end of the isle and we read our vows to each other, which we had written. We DID have the nice but inexpensive wedding that we had prayed for and we are so thankful for all the friends and family that shared it with us.
We are thankful for all our many blessings. This can be a pleasant lesson
to each of us that when we are walking where the Lord has guided us, He will
always provide.