"Oh, that You would bless me indeed..."
  "... and enlarge my territorry..."
  "... that Your hand would be with me..."
  "... and that You keep me from evil..."

  "So God granted him what he requested."

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The prayer of Jabez; breaking through to the blessed life (Bruce Wilkinson)   Multnomah Publishers, 2000     A precious little but powerful book to guide you in the discussion. The retreat will benefit, if the 93 pages would be read before your gathering.